Its not right for one gender and wrong for the other. So this research would directly indicate that the women who sleep with the most men and marry late have the lowest divorce rate. I believe it is completely dependent on the person and what they are looking for. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Enter your email below to join the VIP list. Take that Woman, Do as I say and not as I do double standard mindset and flush it down the toilet! God did not create us to be WHORES, and I am referring to both Men and Women. People have every right to want what they want in a mate,..within reason. ! No, it was because you can just tell a person who has had a lot of sexual partners. You are not sexually compatible) Have you heard of Google? Yall need to start doing some research and stop sleeping around. Would you REALLY want to buy that car after you heard that? He is the Lion and the Lamb. Im hoping this article opens some eyes and gets people to start looking at all of this differently. I know it would be for me. Women, on the other hand, are the gatekeeper to their bodies, because of the risk in any sexual encounter. He thinks I was listening the whole time." Erin. I swear, idiots..youre just being selfish. If you two currently do not agree on those things, by all means walk away. Butit /is/ a fact that the more promiscuous the woman, the more likely she is to have a failed marriage. Good, glad to know my position is clear. I personally dont need or want a Relationship, but I also believe that women who dont ask their male partners how many women theyve slept with then they are desperate housewives. People rarely change. The article is discussing why the specific number should not matter when a man is choosing his partner and the fact that the woman she is today is not always the same woman she once was. Please! So its reasonable to treat number of partners as risk factor it seems. woman who values herself. My girlfriend who I am seeing right now has had sex with about 65 people She inadvertently shows why dudes dont want to settle down with women who participate in hookup culture. As ryaninfamous pointed out, women have the power to practically have sex with any man they want, whenever they want. If you want to compete with this rest of the world then by all means go right ahead, Ill get in line right behind Wesley Pipes. Women whether it be in the past, or in modern times, created an image that they must live up to. Its not a mutually exclusive proposition Paola. In choosing a partner for a relationship, matches up character and values is very important. I understand the views of all who have chimed in on this topic. Now if a guy has a lot and the girl has a lot too, it is equal ground imho. Who you allow inside yourself matters. In my opinion, it kinda shows what type of person you are and how much respect you have for yourself. Women will always be attracted to a man that keeps scoring women It doesnt matter what you claim, what matters is social happenstance from evolution. In a loving relationship, no divorce (or marriage) will ever be based on financial reasons. Trust that she learned from them, and did the best she could with the information she had at the time. So when women say that having sex with lots of men is somehow acting like men, they are wrong. You are not. So sure, women can be sluts and then claim they have grown, and changed, and moved past that time of their lives. The double standard is actually there for a reason. As far as wrong or right, I will save that for another post. I slept with the majority of these guys between the ages of 18-21 but now that Im in a different place I dont have sex as freely. ) Sometimes its just not about judgement of the person its about hurting a future partners feelings. The amount of partners a person chooses to share themselves with sexually reflects on that persons character and values. Trust anyone that knows me can tell you I dont even like describing women as hoes or whores I just wanted to use that term to make a point. The reason why I view the actual number irrelevant is due to this example: Lets say you meet a woman and she is amazing. Facebook. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. She made a vow to stay faithful and she broke it. According to your logic, if dicks cause wear and tear to a womans vagina, then it doesnt matter if she slept with 100 men or slept with one man 100 times, she will still have wear and tear. Im surprised by the comments Ive seen so far! University of Virginia says it does matter if you want a happy marriage. I am just as human as the next person and want to be treated as such. Not to mention the problems I've tried to avoid by those men who slander her name. So, somebody who has raped a person years agoshouldnt have that counted againstthem because that isnt who they really are now? Guess what? We block love sometimes for all the wrong reasons, and how many men she has previously slept with should never be one of them. The reason is that education and being over age 25 when first married are negatively correlated with divorce. Get yourself a virgin problem solved.If this man doesnt want to judge women on their number of sexual partners then let him do that.Let him live. If you refuse to give a woman a chance because of her past, you might be missing out on a really good woman. She can probably just walk up to a man and say Wanna fuck me? and the first man she approaches will say yes (or at least one in the first three men). What is insane to you is not going to be insane to someone else. This isnt about telling women it is good or ok to have a lot of sex partners. There is no double standard. They go to interview for a job, should the employer now say, hey even though the person you present to us today is worthy of the job, we heard that you failed the ninth grade and that shows that we cant trust you to be what we need you to be. That example uses the same principle you are trying to stand on. Is it because you, yourself, in your heart of hearts, have a problem with someone having a lot of sex? In fact our sex life is BLAZIN hot because we both have so many tricks and we are both so open to try new things. You assume that not being old fashioned means being a slut. over 100 is just obvious, whether you see yourself as having a modern approach I completely understand where you are coming from Jeraldel and I assure you I will address these issues moving forward. However, a guy can be just as much of a slut as a gal. Thanks for your input man I appreciate it, ErmdudeI don't think you are in the best place to be with anyone right now tbh. And why? I still deal with the pain but I am far from the promiscuous young girl. When I met a man that claimed to have slept with 150+ women and a woman that slept with 50+ men, its no wonder we have broken families, stds, and little girls like Amber Cole becoming prevalent. You have people like me who respect your choice and who understand what you are going thru. I dont know. Macho-ism still exists. Yes, there is certainly a price I am paying: not seriously dating sluts. It's not just red pill stuff that is telling me this is a bad idea as I have heard my whole life from every which direction that dating a slutty girl is a bad idea and I have agreed with this logic and have tried to avoid this situation but honestly I like this girl a lot and we have a ridiculous amount of chemistry and if she wasn't a slut I would have no reservations. Im gone from a serious thing..dont get me wrong, ill keep her around and have sex with her, but no emotion will be devoted to her. Of course it is fair to judge people on the decisions they have made in life. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. You feel it might reflect on her character and increase her chances of cheating on you? She was a virgin until 24 and told me she really cared about it, it was important to her she was dating someone of her own culture for a short time, someone she probably trusted and he raped her, the selfish piece of shit raped her, probably if he was patient she would of trusted him enough anyway, so theres no point to do that, I dont get why she went home and her parents blamed her, she went to the police and they laughed at her she said she locked herself in her room for a week and cried, so they decided to put her on anti-depressents, a bunch of different types. Not at all. If you actually have a problem with it, that's one thing. Therefore I believe a woman should be more selective in who she chooses. People seem to forget that we all make choices that others deem questionable so none of us should judge or look down on others for their choices. hide ourselves in does not preclude that: it is a make or break answer. I hole hearted believe both males and females can be whores. Nice try though. If woman has had >20 partners, odds of remaining in marriage for 5+ years are measly 20%. If a woman chooses to be a slut, there is a price to pay for that behavior with many men who will forever disqualify her from consideration as a serious partner to settle down with. Its safe to say that we feel/felt that way about each other. We put our best feet forward, so to speak. When it happens be okay and know we are allowed our voews on whom we want to settle with I think people need to stop judging one another and get to know a person for who they are now and not the person they were in the past. I wonder how many marriages would last if they really even knew. I just want men to explore a different perspective on this issue. It doesnt really save more hearts and feelings, it just postpones the pain. (sorry so long lol just trying to get you the most info). The amount of people Ive had The vagina is made to accommodate different sizes. When you really love Who you decide to lay down with and the things that you and them both have going on matters more than numbers. Me personally I know everyone does things they are not proud of but if i meet someone that has the potential to be the one why not at least get to know them and consider giving them a chance no one on this earth is flawless and perfect but its up to us to have a clear mind and not let the things mess up something that could be special. If she is so comfortable with her sexuality and sex drive, be honest about the number. Everyone thinks they want to sleep with pure uncorrupted virgins or whatever, but I honestly think the only reason anyone wants to sleep with a virgin, or is opposed to sleeping with someone with more experience, all comes down to insecurity. irrelevance of your girlfriend/wifes number of sexual partners is People are different, and want different things at different times in their lives. of life (high school/college) and people seem to not care as much as they get Many of the modern women want to be as promiscuous as they please and then expect men not to judge them for it. 6. Make an effort to no longer throw it in her face, because that only makes it harder for her to be open and honest with you going forward. The Virgin guy is one by choice. Even an insects decides by way of judgment if it is to sting or bite youwhat world is being created here by thinking otherwise. 3 of the men I was seeing wanted to marry me, but they are more jealous. 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